CONFIDENT
Confidential counselor
In order to enjoy the game of tennis, feeling safe at our club is a prerequisite. Various news reports have shown that unwanted and transgressive behavior also occurs on the sports fields. Examples include: minor bullying, discrimination or sexually transgressive behavior. The board believes it is important that members and visitors of the club who experience such behavior have a point of contact to report that experience immediately. In this way, we can hopefully nip this behavior in the bud and make the game safe and enjoyable for everyone. That is why we, as a tennis club, have appointed a confidential counselor who is there for all members and spectators.
Why a confidant?
It is important to emphasize that appointing a confidential counselor does not mean that our club is unsafe. On the contrary, we strive for a positive and safe atmosphere in which everyone can enjoy playing sports. But sometimes there may be moments and events in which transgressive behavior could not be prevented, and we want to respond proactively to that. Our confidential counselors are there to ensure that the way we interact with each other within the club remains fun and safe.
Prevention is better than cure
Our confidants are not only available for actual problems, but also for questions that may arise before that. Sometimes there are things that you do not dare to discuss easily, but that do deserve attention. Think of situations in which you are dealing with bullying, discrimination, unpleasant behavior, or if you wonder whether your behavior as a member, parent, coach, or supervisor is sensible. Raising these issues can help prevent problems and prevent them from getting worse.
When can you contact the GLTC Be Quick confidential counselors?
Our confidants are there for all kinds of situations, including:
- Bullying and being bullied: If you are dealing with bullying or are a victim of bullying yourself, we are here to help. Discrimination and exclusion: If you feel excluded because of your skin colour, religion or sexual preference, we want to help you. Transgressive behaviour: If you feel uncomfortable with the way you are approached or touched by a team member, trainer or coach. Suspicion of transgressive behaviour: If you think that someone in your environment is dealing with this. Concerns about the treatment of your child: If you are concerned about how your child is treated within the club or the team. Concerns about your own behaviour as a trainer and/or coach: If you wonder whether your behaviour is appropriate. Accusation of unacceptable behaviour: If someone directly or indirectly accuses you of unacceptable behaviour.
How confidential is a confidant?
We understand that privacy is of the utmost importance. The conversations between you and the confidential counselor are treated in strict confidence. No one is informed without your permission or knowledge. The confidential counselors report anonymously to the general board of GLTC Be Quick to provide insight into any reports, the nature of the reports, and the follow-up.
What if a complaint follows after consultation with the confidential counselor?
Sometimes situations can escalate and it may be necessary to take official steps. Our confidants can help decide on the steps to take and the right way to do this.
At GLTC Be Quick we strive for a tennis club where respect, safety, and fun come first. Our confidants contribute to this goal by offering an accessible and confidential place for all your questions and concerns. Together we ensure that our tennis environment remains fun and safe, for everyone.
Do you need to contact our confidential counselor? Please feel free to contact Lisa Leenders via her email address or on her mobile ( 316 28 63 55 37). Your well-being and safety are important to us.
Should you still be looking for another way to ask questions, obtain information or report. Then you can also ask for help from the KNLTB or the Centrum Veilige Sport Nederland of NOC*NSF. For more information, see: https://www.knltb.nl/alles-over-de-knltb/regels-en-gedrag/fair-play/vertrouwenspersonen/ or https://centrumveiligesport.nl/contact.
Let me introduce myself
LISA LEENDERS
Confidential counselor
I felt honored when I was asked to become a confidant of Be Quick. I didn't have to think long, so of course I said yes. Helping children and (young) adults (on their way), offering them support where necessary or 'just' offering a listening ear, is a role that I want to take on with all my love and dedication.
Whatever someone's story is; whether it concerns bullying, aggression, unwanted (sexual) intimidation or discrimination: I hope that you know that nothing is 'crazy' or 'weird' and that you can ring the bell if you want to talk about something when you can't figure it out yourself. I offer help, support and give advice if desired.
Together we will calmly look for a suitable solution for you for what you are up against; do we solve this internally and is one conversation sufficient for you or should we look further? It doesn't matter. The most important thing is that you know that you can come to me without any worries, that you don't have to be ashamed of anything and that asking for help only shows how strong you are! In my work as a supervisor at Reclassering Nederland I regularly have difficult (and emotional) conversations. These are conversations with people who all have something on their conscience. I hear and see a lot and also with this target group of perpetrators and/or suspects of a criminal offense - no matter how serious the offense is - I am committed to helping someone. This is what I want. This is what I do. I am only satisfied when someone walks out the door feeling relieved and can continue.